{"id":739,"date":"2026-09-08T17:42:03","date_gmt":"2026-09-08T17:42:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elbistanx.com\/?p=739"},"modified":"2026-09-08T17:42:04","modified_gmt":"2026-09-08T17:42:04","slug":"she-packed-her-own-bag-when-her-foster-sister-was-leaving-then-the-family-at-the-door-stopped-everything","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elbistanx.com\/?p=739","title":{"rendered":"She Packed Her Own Bag When Her Foster Sister Was Leaving\u2014Then the Family at the Door Stopped Everything"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy did not understand why Ava was packing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She only knew that whenever people packed bags, something changed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes a room changed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes a house changed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes the people around you changed too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So when five-year-old Lucy saw Ava close a small suitcase that afternoon, she made what seemed to her like the obvious decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She went to get her own things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A tiny backpack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her shoes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A jacket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then she carefully placed them beside Ava\u2019s suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI packed too,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava froze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy expected her to smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, the nine-year-old slowly crouched in front of her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cLucy\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was something about Ava\u2019s voice that made the little girl stop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou\u2019re staying here.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy stared at her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then she looked down at her backpack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her shoes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava\u2019s suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava\u2019s eyes filled with tears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy tried to understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then she asked the question that changed the entire afternoon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cDid I do something wrong?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo,\u201d Ava said immediately. \u201cYou didn\u2019t do anything.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy\u2019s lower lip trembled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThen why can\u2019t I come?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Near the entrance, the family who had come to pick up Ava heard every word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The woman looked at the two girls.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then at the caseworker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWait.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She lowered her voice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cCan we talk before we leave?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava looked up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy stopped crying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neither girl knew it yet, but the conversation about to happen near that doorway would change the plan everyone had arrived with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Lucy Had Stopped Calling Ava Her Foster Sister<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy had arrived at the residence almost two years earlier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She was younger then.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quieter too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For the first few days, she rarely spoke unless an adult asked her a direct question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The building was unfamiliar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So were the routines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Different children came and went.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Different staff members worked different shifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even simple things felt new.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Where were the cups?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Which bathroom could she use?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What happened if she woke up during the night?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava answered most of those questions before Lucy ever had to ask.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava showed her where the night-light was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She helped her find pajamas after bath time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When Lucy refused to eat dinner one evening, Ava sat beside her until she tried a few bites.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Soon, Lucy began following her everywhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At first, staff members described the girls as close friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy eventually stopped using that phrase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava was simply her sister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not her \u201cfoster sister.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not \u201cthe older girl who lived with her.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her sister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To Lucy, there was no important difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ava Became the Person Lucy Looked For First<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Whenever Lucy entered a room, she checked for Ava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If Ava was there, Lucy relaxed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If she was not, Lucy usually asked where she had gone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Their relationship developed through small routines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava helped with Lucy\u2019s hair before school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy saved the marshmallows from her cereal for Ava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They argued over blankets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They watched the same cartoons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes Lucy climbed into Ava\u2019s bed after a nightmare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava would complain that Lucy stole all the covers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But she never sent her away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One night, Lucy asked a question Ava remembered for months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIf you leave, do I leave too?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava did not know why she asked it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe Lucy had overheard adults talking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe she had already learned that children sometimes disappeared from familiar rooms with very little warning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava gave the only answer she could.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWe\u2019re together now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy seemed satisfied.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a long time, that was enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then a family became interested in Ava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The New Placement Was Supposed to Be Good News<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The couple had spent months completing the steps required to provide a longer-term home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They had met Ava before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They liked her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava liked them too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a child who had experienced uncertainty, that mattered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was a bedroom waiting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A school had been discussed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Plans were moving forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Still, there was one problem Ava could not stop thinking about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy was not part of the placement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The adults understood that the girls were close.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, they were not biological siblings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They were not legally connected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On paper, their cases were separate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To a five-year-old, none of that meant anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy did not understand case files.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She did not understand approvals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She understood that Ava helped her when she was scared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She understood that Ava slept down the hall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And she understood that Ava called her \u201clittle sister.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava knew telling her the truth would hurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So she kept postponing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eventually, the suitcase made the truth impossible to hide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Lucy Saw the Suitcase and Made Her Own Plan<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava packed quietly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pair of jeans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Two shirts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pajamas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A few small things she wanted to keep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy watched from across the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At first, she did not ask many questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then she noticed Ava\u2019s jacket beside the suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou\u2019re coming back tonight?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava stopped folding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNot tonight.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy thought for a moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cTomorrow?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava could not answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy disappeared down the hallway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava assumed she had gone to play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A minute later, Lucy returned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She was carrying her small backpack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In one hand, she held her shoes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She walked directly to Ava\u2019s suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then she placed the shoes neatly beside it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The backpack went next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI packed too.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava felt something in her chest drop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy looked proud of herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As far as she was concerned, she had solved the problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava was leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Therefore Lucy needed to be ready too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cBut You\u2019re My Sister\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava crouched in front of her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cLucy\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The excitement disappeared from the little girl\u2019s face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou\u2019re staying here.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy stared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava tried again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou can\u2019t come with me today.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy looked toward the door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then back at the bags.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava struggled for an explanation a five-year-old could understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The truth involved adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rules.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Placements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Separate cases.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">None of those words answered the question Lucy was actually asking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why was the person she called her sister allowed to leave without her?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy\u2019s eyes began to fill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBut you\u2019re my sister.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava reached for her hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That answer only confused Lucy more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If Ava was her sister, why would they be sent to different homes?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then another thought appeared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Children often search for explanations they can control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy found one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe the problem was her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cDid I Do Something Wrong?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy looked down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her voice became smaller.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cDid I do something wrong?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava reacted immediately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy looked up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou didn\u2019t do anything,\u201d Ava said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBut you get to go.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava could no longer hold back her tears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy noticed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That frightened her more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThen why can\u2019t I come?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For several seconds, neither girl spoke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava held Lucy\u2019s hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy\u2019s little backpack remained beside the suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her shoes were still neatly placed next to Ava\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nothing about the scene looked dramatic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That made it harder to watch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy had not thrown herself on the floor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She had not screamed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She had simply packed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She genuinely believed the girl she called her sister would never leave without her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Near the front entrance, three adults had heard the entire conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Family at the Door Had Arrived for Only One Girl<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The couple had come expecting to take Ava home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That was the plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They had prepared for one child.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The paperwork they had discussed concerned Ava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The bedroom they had prepared was for Ava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then they stepped into the residence and saw Lucy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First, they saw the girls holding hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then they saw the luggage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One normal suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beside it, a tiny backpack and two little shoes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The woman looked toward the caseworker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThey\u2019re sisters?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The caseworker hesitated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNot legally.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The woman looked back at Lucy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy was still standing beside Ava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBut they think they are?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The caseworker explained that the girls had lived together for a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy had formed an unusually strong attachment to Ava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ava had become one of the most stable people in her life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The couple had known the girls were close.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seeing it was different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then Lucy asked again:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhy can\u2019t I come?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The woman stopped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She looked at her husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He looked at the two girls.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then she turned back toward the caseworker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWait.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was a pause.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cCan we talk before we leave?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Question Was Not Whether Ava Could Stay<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy assumed something had gone wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So did Ava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perhaps the family had changed their minds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perhaps nobody would leave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The adults moved a few feet away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The conversation lasted longer than the girls expected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then the woman asked the question that had not been part of the original plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat would it take for us to be considered for both of them?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The caseworker did not answer immediately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was not something that could be decided at a doorway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lucy was not an extra suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She was a child with her own case, needs and placement plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Approvals would be required.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The couple would need to be assessed for a different arrangement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There were questions about space.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">School.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Services.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And whether moving both girls together would actually be appropriate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Still, the question changed something important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p 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