There is a quiet fear that comes with loving a child. You realize, somewhere along the way, that you cannot be everywhere they are. You can’t sit beside them in every classroom, ride in every car, or stand guard over every choice they make as they grow. There is so much you simply cannot control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But there is something you can do that reaches further than your own two hands ever could. You can pray.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here are three prayers every parent can pray over their children\u2014each one anchored in a specific promise from Scripture\u2014plus one bonus prayer most parents forget.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Before you pray for their grades or their future or even their safety, pray for what’s happening on the inside. The world will hand your child a thousand lies about who they are, what they’re worth, and what they should chase. The first prayer is for protection over their inner world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The verse behind it:<\/strong> “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it” (Proverbs 4:23). And the New Testament adds a beautiful promise: when we bring our worries to God, “the peace of God… will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:7).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pray that God would be the guard at the door of their heart and mind\u2014filtering out the lies before they ever take root.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Few things shape a child’s life more than who they walk beside. The friends they choose in their younger years often quietly set the direction of their whole life. This is a prayer most parents feel deeply but rarely pray out loud.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The verse behind it:<\/strong> “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm” (Proverbs 13:20). Scripture is blunt about it elsewhere too: “Do not be misled: bad company corrupts good character” (1 Corinthians 15:33).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pray that God would place the right people in your child’s path at exactly the right time\u2014and gently steer them away from the friendships and roads that would lead them somewhere good people get hurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is the deepest one. More than success, more even than safety, the longing of a praying parent is that their child would have a faith of their own\u2014a relationship with God that doesn’t depend on Mom or Dad being in the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The verse behind it:<\/strong> “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). And the heart of it: God’s promise to “put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts” (Jeremiah 31:33).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pray that God Himself would become real to your child\u2014not just a family tradition they inherited, but a Person they actually know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here’s the one parents forget in all the praying for protection and direction: pray that your child would simply know, all the way down, that they are loved\u2014by you, and by God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The verse behind it:<\/strong> “The Lord your God is with you… He will take great delight in you… He will rejoice over you with singing” (Zephaniah 3:17).<\/p>\n\n\n\n A child who knows they are loved walks through the world differently. Pray that this truth would be the soil everything else grows in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You don’t need fancy words. Tonight, when the house is quiet, you can simply put a hand on your sleeping child\u2014or just picture them if they’re grown and gone\u2014and pray these one at a time. Slowly. By name.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You may not see the answers right away. Most parents don’t. But prayers prayed over a child have a way of following them for the rest of their lives, long after they’ve forgotten you were ever standing beside their bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can’t be everywhere they go. But your prayers can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If this helped you, share it with another parent who needs it\u2014and tell us in the comments: which of these are you praying over your kids tonight? \ud83d\ude4f<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" There is a quiet fear that comes with loving a child. You realize, somewhere along the way, that you cannot be everywhere they are. You can’t sit beside them in […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":277,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","bwp-blog-post","bwp-masonry-item","bwp-col-3","bwp-post-has-title"],"yoast_head":"\n2. “Surround Them With the Right Friends, and Keep Them From the Wrong Path”<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
3. “Give Them a Heart That Knows You\u2014Even When I’m Not There”<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Bonus: “Let Them Know How Deeply They Are Loved”<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
How to Actually Pray These<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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